Control Transfer / Both Forms Have Focus

Is it possible to transfer a control from one form to another retaining all of its settings at runtime?
I am trying to transfer a toolbar from one form to another and I'm having a hell of a time.
I don't feel like resorting to creating another instance of the control because I would have to add all the buttons and recreate all the customization the user has added to it.
I'd imagine that this is impossible do to many reasons but I thought I'd ask you guys.

Also, how would I go about creating a form that when clicked on the form it was called from as well as the that form both have (or appear to have) focus.

Thank you,

-cl

I know there is a way to send a windowing control (such as Picturebox) to another form using the API SetParent

Thanks amram.
I'll check that out.
Does anyone know an answer to my second question?
It would be greatly appreciated.

-cl